Changes

We go through life meeting people, having friends, and just going on with everyday life. And then the inevitable happens, change. We never realize how much we depend on or get used to someone or something until change happens. Change will always happen because it's within the process/progression of life. But to be honest, sometimes we're not always ready for the way things may change.

There have been so many changes in my life recently that I don't think I can count them. These changes have truly affected my life. I have struggled with the changes. I've had sleepless nights. I've cried myself to sleep. I've questioned God as in to what's the purpose of this change or that change. And there's one thing I've learned with all of this. I can't change who I am or the fact that things bother me the way they do. But i can change the way I REACT to the change.

I've learned, it's ok to be sad, mad, angry, happy, delighted, etc. But do NOT act out of those emotions. A lot of times when something new happens, people often react as in to how they feel at that time. But that's when you get people saying something that they really don't mean. It feels good to say at that time. There have been a few times I've wanted to say a few choice words....lol. But I learned from my pastor, don't act/react out of my emotions. We all have probably been hurt by someone in that way. But if we would take the time to cool off and then react, we would be better off.

This also goes for things that we get excited about. There are times we get great news or offers, but we don't think things through and end up in a situation where we don't want to be and can't/don't know how to get out of it.

So, i wrote this blog to let you know, it's ok to have and deal with your emotions. Just don't react out of your emotions. I hope this blog helps someone. #STILLLEARNING